This post is a part of a blog series of stories of working moms. I’m excited to share 13 stories from real working mothers including this story about a marketing coordinator and mother of one. I also really would like to hear YOUR story and I’d love to hear it. Keep the conversation going in the comments & on social media using #wellcraftedworkingmoms. A huge thank you to the women who volunteered to share their stories, Mary Boyden of Mamma Bear Magazine for her photography and Madeline Roosevelt for hair and makeup!
I keep trying to remember the exact moment that I met Kate, but it is a little fuzzy. I met her nearly three years ago at one blogger event or another. She is quiet, kind and genuine. I was excited to get to hear her talk about her engagement, wedding and then watch along via social media and occasional meet-ups as she became a mother. She is a true delight to know and I’m so excited to share her story today.
Meet Kate, a working mom
Kate Laubernds and her husband Will have one daughter, Colette, who is 20 months old.
“[She is] as strong willed, independent and precocious as one toddler could be— I wouldn’t have it any other way,” said Kate.
Kate had Colette just two weeks after she turned thirty years old. Before, during and after her pregnancy Kate worked as the Media and Communications Specialist for an Oregon/Washington based winery. She just recently moved jobs.
Right around the same time that I was asking for volunteers for this project Kate applied for, interviewed and was selected for her current job as a Marketing Coordinator for Powell’s Books. She moved into her new career after seven years in the wine industry.
“My studies were in Creative Writing and Journalism so I am happy to be returning to a field that encompasses my love of the written word,” said Kate of her new career.
In her role at Powell’s Books she creates marketing campaigns, assists with the implementation of various promotions and is the project manager for Indiespensable. (In case you didn’t know… Indiespensable is a subscription service which releases every six to eight weeks and includes a signed book packaged in a custom slip-case that was designed in-house, gifts and a booklet with an exclusive interview with the author. So cool!) Due to the nature of her job she spends a considerable amount of her time outside of work reading advanced copy, new and classic books.
A typical work day in the life of a Marketing Coordinator and Mother of One
Kate and her husband both work and have crafted their schedules so that they may work together in getting their daughter to and from care. Her husband Will leaves for work quite early in the morning so that he is able to pick her up from daycare so Kate has morning routines to take care of for both herself and her daughter. She takes Colette to daycare at 8:30 in the morning.
“Right now it is a challenge to get out the door on time because she is potty training so we spend much of our morning in the bathroom. I will be so relieved when this phase is past us…as for now we spend LOTS of time talking about the potty, going potty and cleaning up from going potty. It is really exhausting,” explained Kate.
Kate has a flex schedule with her work but generally starts at nine in the morning. During lunch she catches up on reading or fits in some of her freelance work. Occasionally she gets in a walk.
Will picks up Colette from daycare four of five days and Kate works past 5 PM most days. Some days they go to the park as a family while others Kate takes in some yoga or meets up with friends to get in some personal care time. When the family has dinner together Kate and Will tend to split the cooking duties.
Colette goes down for bed around 7:30 PM which affords Will and Kate time together before going to bed.
“My husband also has a small business in addition to working full-time so we often both spend our time working in the evening,” said Kate.
When free from work the couple usually watches a show together before Kate retires to bed with her latest book.
When my kids are adults and look back at their childhood, I want them to know…
“I hope that my child looks back on my life as I look back on my mother‘s. My mother is and was always striving to enrich her life through schooling, work and personally. She achieved her bachelor degree in my first year of birth (and with a toddler in tow!) and continued later with her education, gaining her masters when I was in middle school,” said Kate.
She continued, “I am so proud of her and when I think about how can I ever take something else on, I ask myself: What would Mom do? Mom takes on any challenge and rolls with it. I hope that my daughter says the same about me and holds the same esteem and boastfulness I have about my own mother.”
Maternity Leave, Childcare & Mom Guilt… oh MY!
I absolutely had to ask a few questions about some of the topics that often come up for the working mom such as maternity leave, childcare, and the challenges & joys of working. I love the answers so much that I felt it was best to just put it in their own words. Read on to learn about the ups, downs, ins and outs of Erin’s working mom experience!
Q&A:
When did you go back to work after having your children?
What type of childcare solutions do you use in order to work?
What challenges do you have as a working mother?
What joys do you have as a working mother?
I most love the feeling of accomplishment. At the end of the day when I am totally exhausted and think about the next day or the rest of the week and am totally stressed I like to think about just the one day I have completed; all the tasks at work, feeding my family, taking care of myself and I just pat myself on the back. It’s hard, but not that hard. I am lucky to have a great partner, a good job, a secure home and family nearby if things get too difficult. Because of all these securities I am able to celebrate each day and that of being mother, wife and self. I am excited about the work that I put out there and knowing that I did all of it while raising a child is icing on the cake.
How do you fulfill the other needs in your life (going back to school, working on a dream business, seeing friends, being creative, etc.) while working and being a mom?
How do you prioritize your family and children as a working mom?
Connect with Kate
Kate is a blogger in addition to her full time work and motherhood. Check out her blog Fork & Vine or connect with her via social media! Find her on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook.
Thank you! A huge thank you to Kate for sharing her story as a working mom and participating in this series. Does her story resonate with you? Share in the comments below or on social media with #wellcraftedworkingmoms !
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Kate has had some of the most amazing jobs out there – Wine industry, Powell’s AND Mom! So inspirational!
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Congrats on the new job, Kate! That’s so wonderful! Such a well-balanced outlook on motherhood, relationships, and working, too. Another great inspiration!
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I identify with so much of this! Some days are tough and you just have to rally—and others are amazing. Good for Kate for making family weekend trips a priority! That is so hard to do, especially with side businesses and freelance work. Go Kate!
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I love reading these stories! And while my work situation is a bit different (It’s a mix of working for a farmers market and working for myself from home. Daycare is a combo of paid care and my parents/husband!) I totally get trying to find the balance between motherhood, work, and taking time for yourself. It can be so tough, but it is so inspiring to read others stories.
No matter the age – every working mom can resonate with Kate’s experience. Being an empty nester – a golden eagle so to speak, I still can remember the challenges and barriers of a working mom and the deprivation that I would feel as a result of leaving my children with childcare and not being able to spend the quality time with them that every mother feels they are lacking. But as Kate points out – there is a very important balance of being true to yourself and developing your own strong identity and most importantly – always feeling and being in the moment ….not to miss a single experience. Because before you know it life does pass quickly. Kate has a talent for expressing those very important tenets about life as a working mom!
Another awesome interview in the series. It sounds like she and her husband are a great and supportive team for each other. Like, Kate, I love my kids more than the world, but those rare date nights where it’s just me and my husband are absolutely invaluable!!! You NEED that (quiet!) time as a couple to keep the spark, and to destress together!
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