For someone who owns a blog about entertaining—someone who feels entertaining is an integral part of her identity—the restrictions that came with this past year have been difficult. My love for entertaining and my identity are not as important as the lives of those around me, so I happily followed regulations. Plus, to be honest, working in healthcare this year has made it impossible to really even think much about hosting parties. Over the past year, following CDC and state health guidelines, I was able to do some safe entertaining and look forward to doing more as things open up a bit!

Why I’m Sharing Safe Entertaining Options After a Year of Pandemic Life

I chose not to share my safe entertaining options over the past year, because:

• Seeing people’s opinions on the internet made me want to keep my thoughts to myself because I didn’t want to be ridiculed for following guidelines.
• I was afraid of being judged for following safety guidelines that were less strict than other parts of the country.
• Finally, I was nervous about encouraging people to get together knowing that regulations varied from county to county, across the country, and throughout the world.

But, now… things are (happily) starting to look different!

Things are starting to open up as vaccines are getting into people’s arms, mitigation efforts are working, and the weather is getting nicer. This will mean that people are going to be able to slowly start getting together even while following all health guidelines! I’m SO ready for that time. Though, unless we continue to follow guidelines, we could easily be back to lockdown if things spike again. I thought I’d share some of the things I did to help make entertaining be safe for my family as well as those of my guests.

Please note: I am not a medical specialist. I am not an expert in CDC guidelines. I do not know the rules of your state, county, city. Please use your own discretion and local health guidelines to make decisions regarding entertaining during this time. Those searching for safer ways to continue/start entertaining will find this post useful. If that is not something you are looking for, please know that I do not need to know. I’m okay with you making your own decisions.

Coming Out of the Pandemic: Safe Entertaining Tips & Ideas

In my day job I’ve been working with marketing teams on creating safe event options that still allow them to connect with new people and create value. We’ve done everything from Virtual Happy Hours to Drive-By events where guests drive through to pick up fun items. When thinking about home entertaining you have those options as well as the potential for small gatherings as guidelines are updated. Below are my favorite safe ways to entertain.

The most important part of keeping events safe right now is communication. Communicate expectations and your own mitigation efforts. Make it easy and open to allow guests to cancel if sick or exposed to something. This is one part of the pandemic that I hope moves forward. Open communication is so important! I hope that the “us” of the future continues to make it polite to not come to an event while under the weather rather than going in fear of being rude by missing an event.

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Keep parties small:

Yes, I am ready for large events with all my friends too. I really, truly am. Until our numbers are low enough and enough people are vaccinated… we still need to keep the parties small. Local health guidelines will help guide you in how large your event can be. When allowed, I limited our outdoor engagements to people from a couple of different households. This helps to limit exposure if someone were to find out they were exposed or sick.

Entertain outdoors:

I know that it isn’t possible right now to have outdoor events in some areas in the month of March. However, we do know that it is much safer to get together with people outdoors rather than indoors. Grab a pop-up tent*, outdoor heaters*, and blankets. Make sure your chairs are 6 feet apart and serve up some warm drinks! We’ve been lucky enough to be able to host a couple of friends for book club meetings around our fire pit and a ladies night on the porch.

Don’t Spread Germs:

The days of grazing tables are over. At least they are for me. I am not sure I’ll be bringing them back into my parties for years to come. For now, I’m making it easy on myself by purchasing single-serve items from foods to drinks. Canned wine or spritzers work great for this! This is not sustainable as it is terrible for the environment. However, it is an easy way to serve guests without sharing serving utensils. Other ideas for this would include individualizing that grazing table and turning it into a single-serve charcuterie plate!

Keep supplies handy:

When we have people over outdoors we know that they may need to use our restroom. We ask that guests wear a mask inside our house, especially if someone is indoors while they go in. In case needed, we make sure we have extra masks*, plenty of sanitizers, and wipes placed in areas that are easy to grab without drawing attention. Even if no one uses them, I feel more comfortable knowing that if they wanted them they wouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable by asking.

When hosting activities, set up the supplies socially-distanced:

Hosting an outdoor baby shower or ladies’ craft night? Set up tables where guests can sit six-feet apart and have all of their supplies in front of them. I think having guests create DIY terrariums would be a perfect way to spend time with friends while safely engaged in an activity.

Go virtual!

Everyone and I mean everyone, is tired of zoom these days. I get it! However, one of the highlights of a really hard year was the fact that the few times that I did host virtual events I got to host them with some people that it would have been really hard to see in person even had there been no pandemic. My birthday party this year included my sister from Oklahoma, family from Texas, and friends living in Idaho, Portland, Spokane, and even across the street. I would have never have been able to get these people together in a non-virtual zone. Even after Covid is gone and we are back to hosting regular parties, I believe I will try to do at least one or two virtual events a year so I can keep connected to those friends that may have just been a text or Facebook message pre-pandemic.

Some specific safe-entertaining party ideas, shopping lists, and free invitations are coming to the blog over the next few weeks. In the meantime, I’d love to know how you’ve been able to keep connected over this past year. What type of entertaining were you able to do? What are you looking forward to as things open up? Share in the comments or message me on Instagram!